Focusing on home and making things feel warm is part of being able to focus outside of home
on things that feel less warm.
I realize that there are places that feel unsafe or unloving or not equal, and I am digesting a lot of the NFL kneeling, the way our leader talks to other world leaders, the hurricanes and earthquakes.
It feels unfair and weird to buy pumpkins and feel good about things. But I have learned a few ideas that help.
1- it is possible to have many different feelings at once. my sister preaches this.
2- it is important to fill up on good and wonderful things.
3- it is possible to DO something. So I will keep working on what that looks like too.